阅读理解. Every family with kids has seen i

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阅读理解.

     Every family with kids has seen its share of arguments,shouting and complaining.It turns

out that all that conflict serves an important purpose in the development of children.Saying

"no",followed by a temper tantrums (发脾气),just may be an unavoidable part of growing

up.And that's a good thing.These are the first steps toward independence.Even young children

have to challenge their parents sometimes.

     Studies have shown the following:

     Although stressful,conflict is beneficial for children.

     Learning to manage conflict is necessary for a child's development.

     Conflicts during the preschool years occur because children desire even more attention

than parents can or should give.

     If you understand why conflict occurs,it can minimize (最小化) the conflicts between

you and your children.Conflict is a child's attempt to develop a sense of self and how he or

she learns to express needs and ideas.Parents develop and drive this independence by

exposing children to the outside world both formally and informally.

     Conflict can grow out of a difference of opinion or might just be a way to blow off steam

(发泄怒气)．In rare situations,constant conflict between a parent and child can indicate a

deeper emotional problem.Consult your doctor if this seems to be your situation.

     It's important to offer your child choices,which should be determined by age and

developmental level.The more responsible a child is,the more choices he or she gets in reward.

You can threaten your child with punishment,but often offering a choice will better improve

angry situations.Consequences and rewards should have some meaning to your child.

     Often a child's adverse (敌对的) reaction when he or she hears the word "no" can be

avoided by giving the child an explanation as to why you have refused their request.

1．What would be the best title for the passage?_____

A．Children's temper tantrums

B．Saying "no" is part of growing up

C．How to deal with children

D．Relationship between parents and children

2．Why does the author say "that's a good thing"in Paragraph 1?_____

A．Conflicts benefit parents a lot.

B．That means children want to be independent.

C．The conflict between parents and children is a must.

D．Conflicts are useful for children's physical development.

3．According to the passage,conflicts can occur when________.

A．parents try to control their children

B．children refuse to express needs and ideas

C．children are exposed to the outside world

D．parents and children have different ideas

4．According to the passage,which of the following is useful for reducing conflicts between

parents and children?_____

A．Avoiding saying "no" to children directly.

B．Respecting children's choices completely.

C．Punishing children if necessary.

D．Seeing a doctor frequently.

5．The passage is mainly written for________.

A．teachers

B．children

C．parents

D．experts