How can you get along with classmates, especially the ones that are really difficult to deal with? Firstly, if someone does something that offends you, take a moment to relax and just breathe (呼吸) before you relax. You can take 3 deep breaths and count to ten while you breathe in and out, and this will help to calm the nervous system. Giving yourself time to think will also help you make a good decision and avoid making the situation worse.
Secondly, you can get along with others by exercising. Exercise can develop your muscle and self-confidence. Take an exercise class at school and communicate with your classmates during the class. This is a great way to get to know them better.
Thirdly, if you have a problem with some of your classmates, talk to them about it. Discuss some ways you can make your relationship better. For example, if you have a neighbor that likes to copy homework off you, talk to this person about doing their own work.
Fourthly, to avoid disagreement in the relationship, you need to communicate with your classmates effectively. When your classmates are talking to you, take the time to actually listen to what they’re saying. Give them your full attention by looking into their eyes and repeating some of the things they’re saying. This way, you’ll be closer to them and this could develop into a great friendship.
Last but not least, to get along with your classmates, you may, need to make a few changes to your personality (性格). If you’re having trouble getting along with others, you must get at the root of the problem. You don’t have to completely change who you are, but you need to be willing to change.
In a word, be true to who you are, give your classmates respect and make friends with them, and you’ll get along well with them.
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Relax when you are 小题2: by someone
|  Keep calm by breathing 小题3: and counting to ten while breathing.
Think about the 小题4: of your actions in order to behave correctly.
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Exercise
| Develop your muscle and make you become more 小题5: by exercising.
Communicate with your classmates during exercise 小题6:
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Talk with your classmates about the problems
| Discuss how you can 小题7: your relationship.
Encourage him to do his own work if one classmate likes to copy your homework.
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Communicate effectively
| Listen carefully to what your classmate is saying.
Make eye 小题8: with your classmate and repeat some of his of her words when he or she is talking.
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Make小题9: to your personality
| Find out what the小题10: really is and then be willing to change.
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